So
often you see fabulously capable people with all the talent in the
world, yet because they lack mental toughness, they don't perform
when it counts most. This is one of the most tragic and most
common realities in society throughout the world. A person without
mental toughness will never achieve the greatness they deserve -
it's as simple as that. Mental toughness is an absolute 'must' for
success.
Mental toughness is what we all need to get to the next level when
the going gets tough. It must be understood that to truly advance
means to struggle through the obstacles that you face. These are
not really obstacles but are the necessary skills and talents that
you would need to get you forward. Real successful people develop
constantly their mental toughness because at the end of the day
it is the one feature which is the springboard of their next success.
When you choose to fight for what you believe
in, and for what you want to achieve, rather than choose the easy
option of flight it is mental toughness that you fall back on to
help you move on and not give up. The constant demand of
every day challenges and the associated stress weaken the will power,
which make mental toughness an essential quality of being able to
survive successfully in a competitive environment.
I have had a privileged upbringing. My parents worked hard to provide
me with the best they ‘couldn’t’ afford. A successful
athlete but poor student, I was Sportsman of the Year at a private
secondary school and Duntroon Military College. At school I was
a first class rower, rugby player and champion in field athletics.
Subsequently, I played representative rugby for Queensland and the
Defence Force.
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My first
dream was to play rugby for Australia, but I fell short. At my best,
I played A grade rugby in three states and had some junior state
representative honours. My second dream was to serve in the Special
Air Service Regiment. I didn’t get there. Deep down, I knew
I had the talent and physical capacity to make my dreams a reality,
and I knew the missing link was mental. I had many successes both
personally and professionally, successes that people would only
ever dream of, but I wanted to experience more.
After I hung up ‘my boots’ for the last time, I became
obsessed with uncovering the mental toughness secrets of the great.
Following my retirement from the army my research started in 1997,
I spent every free moment meeting with and conducting interviews
with champions, reading their books and studying everything I could
get my hands on about the psychology of peak performance.
I was obsessed. This book is the result of my 10-year obsession.
When I started to implement the ideas in this book, my whole life
changed. It wasn’t overnight, but sometimes it seemed like
it. There’s no magic here, just practical thought processes,
habits and philosophies drawn from the great. Buy
the book >
This book contains no theories. Every secret comes straight from
the voices of experience, either my own or those of the great. This
book is loaded with ideas you can implement immediately. Some will
be familiar, others new. All of them have the power to catapult
your results, no matter how high you’re flying.
This is a no-holds-barred book and at times you may find yourself
slightly offended. I constantly compare ‘average people’
(good) with the ‘great’. These terms are used to get
your attention and make you ask, “Which one am I?”
It’s been said that in order to master a subject teach it.
Now that you know a little of my story, you know this is true for
me. After 10 years of studying and coaching people throughout the
world I can honestly tell you that many times I still think like
a complete amateur, operating out of the same average thinking that
I ridicule. After all these years, my mental toughness growth is
still a work in progress.
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